What to Do When People Poop On Your Dreams

"This is complete bullshit."

That's the response of a reader to my email yesterday.

'S okay.

She's entitled to her opinion.  It's not against the law for her to be wrong. :)

Admittedly, I view the world much differently from many (dare I say, most?) people. 

They probably think I'm really "woo woo" with the energy talk that I sometimes espouse. 

But I feel like my B.S. in Microbiology and Molecular Genetics from UCLA, years of working in research labs, and 20 years as a clinician prevents me from getting carried away with the energy stuff.

The point is people are going to disagree with me.

Just as you might be hearing things from your doctor that is jarring to your own reality.

Things like "You won't be able to get pregnant with your own eggs.  You need an egg donor."  That's the last thing you expect to hear from your doctor. 

But you know what?

That may or may not be true. 

Depends on your situation.

Regardless, if you're confronted with a situation that you don't like and the solutions aren't good enough for you, dig deeper. 

See if you can uncover an alternative approach that resonates with you.

Rarely is there just one answer. 

Some solutions take longer.  Are less direct.  Require more patience. 

Realize that this might be more of a marathon than a sprint to the finish line. 

I can't tell you how many times people come to me as a last resort.  After a few months or even 1-2 years with me, they get pregnant after years of trying. 

So get a 2nd or 3rd opinion from doctors with different approaches.

Try something new. 

Like acupuncture.

I can help you with that!  Call me at (858) 495-0771 or book here: http://juliechang.genbook.com/

Julie Chang,
Natural Fertility Eggspurt
www.ZenFertility.com

 

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